This week has seen me going cushion crazy in preparation for Mother's Day which we celebrate in the UK in March. I am hoping that both my mother and Steve's mother enjoy their gifts.
Other work in progress
When clearing out my sewing basket, I came across a small quilt I started back when Victoria was about 6 years old. My intention was to make it for her dolls pram, however since she is now past the age of dolls and prams it will have to wait until grandchildren arrive in years to come. I suppose this will give me plenty of time to get it finished. I love the brightness of the colours. I have to admit, after studying for four years I have missed the creativity of sewing and cross stitching. I also feel slightly guilty for not continuing with my current work in progress, especially as I was making good progress on it.
I have also returned to reading, especially non academic books. I am currently reading A Mother Like Alex - based on an inspirational woman who adopted seven children, fostered an eighth child and is guardian to a ninth child. What is even more inspirational is that seven of the children have Downs syndrome, one has a life-limiting condition and another child is autistic. Alex decided at a young age that she did not want to marry or have children of her own but instead fought bureauracy to adopt children with special needs which, at that time, in 1984 adoption was not an option for single women, let alone adopting children with disabilities. This also coincided with a program I was watching last night also about young people with Downs syndrome and their transition to adulthood, the worries faced by the young people and their parents towards living in independence and the lack of support given within their care to help them achieve what other young people may take for granted.
People often say to Steve and myself that we must be special to foster the children and young people over the past 10 years, but we only have them for a period of time. Sometimes the young people we have had living here move on into independence, adoption or due to the harshness of life, just cannot cope within a family environment. To me the special people are the Alex's of this world who have devoted their whole lives to providing a permanent loving home for young people who would have been regarded as 'unadoptable' and helped to change the discrimination these young people would have received had their life course been different.
On that note, I have no other snippets to add to my blog for this week, please feel free to leave any comments. If you could spare a few minutes of your busy time to look at my survey and to answer the questions I will be so grateful, once again the link is http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/BTKJSDV.